17. A CALL TO
RADICAL LIVING

1 Corinthians 5:1-5
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We're living in a world that is dealing with serious matters such as AIDS, poverty, & hunger. But what do the movies, television shows, and even the lyrics to songs want to focus on? Sex! Sex is dominating our lives so much that last Sunday night, when Justine Timberlake, and Janet Jackson, tried to shock the world, with a 2 second act of vulgarity during the halftime of the Superbowl, it barely raised an eyebrow with the majority of Americans. After all, only about 200,000 out of the over 93 million people who watched the game lodged a complaint. If were not careful, family values, moral purity, and plain common decency are going to disappear in front of our very eyes. So for the most part, all those 2 seconds did was to overshadow the game, and become the talk around the water cooler and the major headline for the newscasts.

The moral climate of the city of Corinth was much like the moral climate of America today. It was a moral cesspool. It would have been next to impossible to grow up in Corinth without being contaminated by immorality. The inhabitants of Corinth were also obsessed with sex. On the top of a mountain outside the city limits was the temple built to Aphrodite. She was the Greek goddess of love, or should I say goddess of lust. For very little of the sex that was going on in Corinth had anything to do with love. Like I said, that sounds just like what's going on in our nation, doesn't it?

But this doesn't mean we should turn a blind eye towards the sins that have gripped our nation, or the sins that have gripped our lives as well. From the examples of biblical characters, such as Abraham, Moses, David and Peter, we see that even the most devout followers of God are capable of sinning. In fact, unless you become comatose, none of us are beyond committing even the grossest of sins.

But, on the other hand, our lives should not be characterized by sin. It's one thing for David to give into his lust and commit adultery, because he repented when he was confronted. But it's quite another matter for a person to continue in a persistent lifestyle of immoral behavior over a period of time, even after being told to stop. We should never view sin as inevitable, or excusable, or even insignificant, because sin matters greatly to God-v. 1.

Please note the problem was not the fact that there were sinners attending the church. But the problem was that one of the members of the church was openly engaged in sexual immorality. This is an important distinction to make. Because we should not become so judgmental towards sinners that they won't feel welcomed. But neither we should we have no standards of morality for those who claim to be a Christian.

In Jesus' high priestly prayer, he prays: "I do not pray that You should take them out of the world, but that You should keep them from the evil one." (John 17:15) Unfortunately, too many Christians have gone to great lengths to avoid keeping Jesus' wish. Instead of living in the world under the protection of the power of God, in order to be a much needed light to the world, too many Christians have opted for living the same kind of lifestyle of the sinners in their world.

Surveys have revealed that there is little difference between saints & sinners in the rates of premarital sex & extramarital affairs. Just as many single believers are living together as nonbelievers. At a PromiseKeepers rally, they revealed a startling fact. The hotels saw a significantly higher number of pay-per-view pornographic movies watched during a PromiseKeepers rally than at any other time of the year.

Let me ask you a tough question: Are you involved in some sin that, if revealed, would devastate your family, cause you to lose your job, and destroy any ministry you have? None of us are guilty of what this man did, but are any of you involved in Internet pornography? Are any of you guilty of having an emotional affair with a co-worker? Are any of you guilty of abusing alcohol or prescription drugs? If you are, stop! Get into an accountability relationship. Begin practicing the spiritual disciplines of prayer & Bible study.

As I said earlier, Janet Jackson's exposed breast was what Americans talked about when they talked about the Superbowl. The same thing was happening in the city of Corinth about the sexual immorality going on in the church of Corinth-v. 1(a). If they had had TV in those days, this would have been the major story of the day. Everywhere you went in Corinth, people were talking about what was going on in the church.

This church had tremendous things going for her. She was manifesting all the gifts of the Spirit. People were constantly getting saved. Yet what was making headlines in the city was that there was sexual immorality going on in the church. The words "sexual immorality" include adultery; fornication; homosexuality; lesbianism; intercourse with animals or with close relatives or with a divorced man/woman. Even though the church was guilty of being generally sexually immoral, the thing that had Paul upset was that there was also incest going on.

The Greek word that is used in for wife v. 1 shows us that this was not the man's biological mother, rather it was what we would call today his stepmother. The words "have/has his father's wife" in v. 1 also show us that he wasn't merely having a sexual affair with his mother.

Whenever the word "have/has," is coupled with the word "wife" in the Bible, it means marriage. This man was married to his mother. To make this sin even worse, in 2 Corinthians ch. 7, we discover that his father was still alive. This man had gone and taken away his father's wife away from him, and they were currently living together as husband & wife.

Even though society today would say there is nothing wrong with this, since it was his stepmother, God doesn't recognize the difference between biological or adopted family members. Joseph was never called Jesus' stepfather. God doesn't call us his stepchildren. And Jesus didn't say that when we pray we are to say, "Our stepfather who is in heaven."

God clearly forbids the sexual union between a parent and a child. God says, "Do not dishonor your father by having sexual relations with your mother." (Leviticus 18:7) He also says that "A man is not to marry his father's wife." (Deuteronomy 22:30)

Not only was incest forbidden under Jewish law, but it was forbidden under Roman law. The historian Cicero tells us that this was "An incredible crime and practically unheard of throughout the world." Even in a world where almost anything sexually was allowed, the one thing that pushed the envelope too far was what going on inside the church.

So even the pagans of Corinth, who were super-liberals in the area of sex, were disgusted by what was going on at the church of Corinth. If the incest wasn't bad enough, what really had Paul mad was the attitude of the people of the church towards that sin-v. 2.

Underline the word "arrogant, proud, or puffed up." The members of the church had become so desensitized to sin that not only were they tolerating it, but they were actually boasting of the fact that they were open-minded towards this man's alternative lifestyle.

Before we pick up our rocks, we better take a look at what is going on in today's church. How many churches today, for fear of being branded as legalists, will not hold her members to any standards of moral behavior? How many denominations are so proud of their tolerance towards homosexuality that they brag about ordaining homosexual pastors? Look at how many are willing to perform same sex marriages.

The number one reason why so many of today's young people are turned off to the church is because of the hypocrisy of Christians towards sexual purity. This church has weathered 3 such storms. Each storm stopped the power of the Holy Spirit until the matters were dealt with. And just like the ice storm that took away our power 2 weeks ago had lasting effects, we lost food, spent extra money on supplies, so did each one of the sexual storms that hit us.

We lost our reputation. And we lost many people. And I know of some people, who were living passionately for the Lord at that time, are either no longer attending any church, or they have become lukewarm in their spiritual walk. Truly, there are many innocent victims who are hurt when sexual immorality hits a local fellowship.

Because of the negative impact that sexual immorality has on a local fellowship, there is the temptation of rather than facing the sin and dealing swiftly with it, to sweep it under the carpet in the hopes that it will go away. This is not God's answer-v. 3. Paul he didn't set up a committee to investigate the matter. He didn't call for a church meeting for the people to vote on what should be done. He didn't call the couple in to have several counseling sessions. Instead, he was following the Bible's commands on how to deal with sin in the church.

Jesus told us that "If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault. But if he will not listen, take one or two others along. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if he refuses to listen even to the church, treat him as you would a pagan or a tax collector." (Matthew 18:15-17) Paul followed these steps-v. 9.

And since this couple had not listened, it was time for further action. There was no discussion about how many people might leave the church. Or how many people might be offended. The sin was so blatant and obvious that there was no doubt about it, it had to be dealt with. God expects us to deal with sin because he takes the purity of his people very seriously.

You expect this out of God because of his fatherly love for us. Even though some states have legalized prostitution, no good father would encourage his daughter to pursue such a career. Even though Hollywood may glamorize sex, no good father would encourage his children to become sexually promiscuous. No parent worth their weight in salt would let their children engage in immoral/illegal activities. So why would our heavenly father be any different in relationship to those who are his own?

Yet sadly, we don't have this same concern for each other. It is just not right for us to make light of sin in our own lives, or in the lives of our brothers/sisters. The proper response to anytime we sin, or anytime we hear of one of our family members sinning is intense mourning-v. 2.

The Greek word that is used for mourning is the same word that is used for the emotion we feel when a loved one dies. We should grieve just as deeply when someone succumbs to sin, as we do when our parents, spouse, children, or a close friend succumbs to death. In fact, the idea of grieving over someone's sins helps us to keep the role of discipline in its proper perspective.

For we should never be happy over having to exercise church discipline. Instead, it should produce within us great sorrow knowing that the evil one has won a battle within the life of someone we love deeply. We should grief over the fact that someone we love is going through horrible disgrace. Whenever grief is real then action will be swift. But whenever grief is absent so is immediate action.

The problem with the church today is that far too many Christians are deeply involved in sin, and we are carrying on business as usual. Brothers & sisters, the sinful state of the church ought to crush us with such grieve that it causes us to want to take action. If we really love each other we can't let the disease of sin to run rampant through our family. It is time that the church once again takes the necessary actions to keep the deadly, contagious disease of sin from spreading-v. 2(b).

Sometimes in the treatment of diseases, it is imperative to isolate the infected person from the rest of society. The same is true when it comes to the health of Christians. There may be times when a brother/sister, who is living in overt, on-going, common knowledge sin, has to be removed from the fellowship with a local body of believers. Even though church discipline is not commonly practiced, nor is it a popular concept, it nevertheless is what God prescribes as the punishment for unrepentant sin.

And if excommunication doesn't cause a person to repent, there is an even more drastic step we are to take-vv. 4-5. When you give someone over to Satan for the destruction of the flesh, you are asking God to remove his hand of protection from a person, thus making him an easy target for Satanic attacks. To correctly interpret this verse we need to see how Paul uses the words "destruction," & "flesh," in this passage. The word "destruction" literally means "The external ills and troubles by which the lusts of the flesh are subdued and destroyed." The word "flesh," as Paul uses it here, literally means "the earthly nature of man that is apart from divine influence, and therefore prone to sin."

From these 2 meanings we see that when we turn people over to Satan, as they go through hell on earth, they will realize that it was their own sins that caused all their troubles. And eventually they will run from their sins, rather than running towards them. Jesus gave us a perfect example of this in the story of the prodigal son.

Jesus tells us that things got so bad for this young man that he was having to eat the food he was feeding the pigs he was taking care of. And one day, when he came to his senses, he said, "How many of my father's hired men have more than enough bread, but I am dying here with hunger! I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: 'Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you.'" (Luke 15:17-18)

The correlation between the prodigal son and us is that when we realize that the only reason we are living in the pigsty of life, the only reason we are going through such bad financial times, or the only reason why are bodies are being attacked by sickness, is because of our unwillingness to repentant of our sins, then we will want to come back home to our heavenly Father.

Paul wants us to know that the purpose of this drastic type of discipline is ultimately for the sake of causing us to turn back to God before we stand before Jesus. Which will occur either after we die, or at the time Jesus raptures his church. The word "saved," as it is used in this verse, literally means "to deliver from the penalties of the Messianic judgment."

I don't know about you, but I don't want to be raptured in the midst of committing a sin. When I stand if front of Jesus, I don't want Jesus to ask me in front of all heaven what in the world I was doing? John puts it this way: "We know that, when He appears, we shall be like Him, because we shall see Him just as He is. And everyone who has this hope in Him purifies himself, just as He is pure." (1 John 3:2-3)

The Holy Spirit wants us to see that there is a positive aspect to church discipline. This is why the word saved is in what is called the aorist tense. The Holy Spirit inspired Paul to use the aorist tense to get us to look at the bigger picture, instead of focusing on only what we can see.

With the naked eye, we see church discipline as being cruel & unusual punishment. We tend to feel sorry for the embarrassment the person must feel. But if we can step back and see that because of the discipline, the person is restored first to God, second to their family, and third to their church, then it doesn't seem to be that harsh.

Contrary to popular belief, church discipline always has the idea of redemption, not annihilation. If church discipline is not redemptive, then it is punishment. Paul is not interested in punishing this man, but rather in seeing him restored back into the fellowship with Jesus and his church. Church discipline, when carried out for the purpose of redemption, truly is an incidence where the means justifies the end. Paul would tell us to trust the process, because it works. We see this in his next letter where Paul writes: "You ought to forgive and comfort him, so that he will not be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. I urge you, therefore, to reaffirm your love for him." (2 Corinthians 2:7-8) What Paul is saying is that when the person repents, he/she is to be welcomed back into the fellowship with open arms.

Let me say in conclusion that many people are trying to tell church leaders that if their church will talk only about love, and don't talk about sin & punishment, then people will come in droves. But this is not true. In actuality, history proves that sinners have always been drawn more by churches who preach & practice the truths of God's Word.

History proves that when sinners are around people who live distinctively different lives, people who live radical Christian lives, especially in the area of sex, money, relationships, and possessions, that there is a greater rate of conversion than when the people are compromising their faith just for the sake of being part of the world. History proves that when people walk into a church, and they find her people no different than they are, 2 things will happen. Either they will either stay because they feel comfortable in their sins. Or even worse, they will walk out the door and totally reject Jesus Christ because he has made no difference in the lives of those who claim to know & love him.

The Spirit of God is calling each of us to radical Christian living. But I want you to be aware that this kind of living is not going to make you popular. In fact, people will mock you. They will call you old-fashioned. And you will be branded as a narrow-minded, intolerant, bigot when you stand up and declare that so much in our world is wrong according to the Bible. But despite all the risks associated with this kind of radical living, this is a call we all need to answer.

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