38. EXAMPLES
TO AVOID

1 Corinthians 10:6-10
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Have you noticed that we don’t like being told what to do? We would rather find out the hard way, by doing stupid things, to discover that there are often serious consequences to the wrong choices we make. One 4th of July, me and a couple of buddies of mine went to Daytona Beach. In those days, I was a drunk. So after drinking several pitchers of beer, we rented some 3-wheelers, and started to drive all over the beach terrorizing the tourists. When the police came to arrest us, I smarted off to one of them. He responded back by hitting me upside my head with his nightstick. When I came to, I found myself in jail, charged with reckless driving, disorderly conduct, and resisting arrest. After using all of my vacation money to pay my fine, I left Daytona Beach, and have never gone back since. Not only was it a costly lesson, but an extremely painful one as well. But I did learn that there are consequences for our actions. I learned to never talk back to a policeman.

Since God loves us like a father, he will often give us consequences which are designed to keep us from getting hurt, or hurting others, or most importantly, damaging the name & reputation of our Lord Jesus Christ, when we do stupid, sinful things. Last week we learned that there were experiences that the Israelites had gone through that should have made them more appreciative of God, but instead caused them to rebel more against what he was doing. Paul continues to give us a history lesson of the Israelites, by using 5 examples of behaviors they exhibited that we need to avoid, so we won’t experience God’s punishment.

The first example of a behavior to avoid deals with our attitude. Paul tells us that our spiritual forefathers set their hearts on, they craved for, they lusted after evil things--v. 6(b). The word used here refers to a deep seated evil desire or attitude. The problem the Israelites had was that they were overexposed to supernatural blessings. Despite all God was doing in their lives, there was no proper response from the Israelites to his miraculous interventions & provisions. The whole time they were experiencing all of the divine blessings they longed for the good old days back in Egypt.

Now the historical reference which helps explain Paul’s point is found in Numbers 11. After crossing the Red Sea, the Israelites journeyed to Mt. Sinai, where they spent just over a year getting organized. But unbelievably, just 3 days after leaving Sinai, they start complaining about their hardships. The Bible tells us that some of “The rabble with them began to crave other food, and again the Israelites started wailing and said, ‘If only we had meat to eat! We remember the fish we ate in Egypt at no cost–also the cucumbers, melons, leeks, onions and garlic. But now we have lost our appetite; we never see anything but this manna!’” (Numbers 11:4)

Now since none of us have ever eaten manna, we can’t say whether or not they had a legitimate beef with God. But, I can understand their wanting something else besides manna. Since I’ve been on this diet, I can’t tell you how many times I’ve craved for a quarter-pounder with cheese, plus some supersize fries & a coke from MacDonalds. There are times when I get so tired of eating healthy food. So I can sympathize with their longing for something else to eat besides plain old manna.

It is important for us to realize that the foods they were craving were not evil. Despite what our kids think, there is nothing wrong with eating cucumbers, melons, leeks, onions, and garlic. But what was evil was that God provided one thing and they wanted something else. What made their cravings evil is that they weren’t content with the provisions that God had blessed them with.

It is very possible that some of you this morning pretended to worship God, but the whole time your heart was set on something evil. I’m not saying that while you were singing you were thinking about sinful things. But rather there is jealousy in your heart because God has not blessed you in ways he has blessed others. Perhaps you are struggling financially, physically, or emotionally and God hasn’t intervened in your life the way you want him to. And as you looked around the room you saw people who aren’t living for the Lord the way you are, yet they seem to have plenty of money, or they are in great health. And the whole time you’ve been here, all you can think about is what God hasn’t given you, instead of thanking him for all the blessings he has poured upon you.

Or perhaps, instead of being content with the blessings God has poured on you, you looking for things in this world to satisfy you. Let me say again that this doesn’t necessarily mean that the things you are doing are wrong. For instance, there is nothing wrong with playing golf, or going to the movies, or playing video games, or even shopping at WalMart till you drop. But what would make these things wrong is if you are doing these things rather than serving God because you are mad at God for not giving you everything you want. Despite what we may think, God has never promised to meet our wants, only our needs.

If you want to know if you are craving after evil things instead of spiritual things, just look at your checkbook or day-planner. If you are spending more money & time on things of the world then you are on things that advance the kingdom of God, then probably you are craving after evil things. This is why Paul said to “Set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth.” (Colossians 3:2)

The second example of a behavior we are to avoid is idolatry--v. 7. And here Paul backs up his point with a quotation from Exodus ch. 32. The worship of the Golden Calf is one of the low points of Israel’s history. While Moses was up on the mountain receiving the Ten Commandments, the people decided he had been gone too long and asked Aaron to “Make us gods who will go before us. As for this fellow Moses who brought us up out of Egypt, we don’t know what has happened to him.” (Exodus 32:1)

So Aaron took their jewelry and fashioned a golden calf for them to use in their worship of God. Furthermore, Aaron scheduled a party, that started out with the folks gathering together to merely eat & drink, but quickly turned into a wild, drunken orgy. Moses, of course, was shocked and furious when he came down from the mountain and saw all this happening. He was so mad that “He cast the tablets out of his hands and broke them at the foot of the mountain. Then he took the calf which they had made, burned it in the fire, and ground it to powder; and he scattered it on the water and made the children of Israel drink it.” (Exodus 32:19-20)

You may be thinking that this has nothing to do with you, because you don’t worship a golden calf as your God. But nevertheless, there is still a lot of idolatry that we are guilty of committing. I say this because an idol is anything that takes the predominate place in our lives that belongs exclusively for God. And in today’s culture, we have made idols out of relationships, careers, even good looks.

As much as I want to keep losing weight, I can’t become so consumed with it that I forget God. I have to constantly remind myself that I can’t rob my time with God to give me the extra time for exercise. Instead, I gave up some of my couch potato time.

We also have to guard against making little gods out of our spouse, our kids, our sweetheart, or a friend. Some Christians are more consumed with having a relationship with these people than they are about maintaining their relationship with God. While these people, especially our family, are important, they should never come before your relationship with God.

Some people have made success an idol. They are more concerned with the bottom line of their business, or rising to the top of the corporate ladder, that they don’t have any time for God or their family. So instead of having time to come and corporately worship God with their family, or instead of having nightly family devotions, they are at work in the hopes of getting ahead. In doing so they are forgetting the promise that Jesus made when he said, “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.” (Matthew 6:33)

Even I have to guard myself against wanting this church to become successful that I don’t take the time I need to worship God, simply for being my heavenly Father. I have to guard myself against reading the Bible merely to find sermon illustrations. I have to guard myself against wanting to preach sermons that will draw bigger crowds, and get the people to talk about me, instead of preaching a sermon that glorifies God. I have to guard myself against worshipping him merely as a means to try to twist his arm to get him to do what I want him to do with this church.
The third example of a behavior we are to avoid is sexual immorality--v. 8. I want you to notice Paul’s train of thought. He is showing us that having a wrong attitude will lead to a substitution of a wrong object of worship, which eventually will lead to a wrong display of affection. We see this in Romans ch. 1 where Paul says that when people started to worship the creation more than the creator, that eventually they disgraced themselves with every kind of immoral behavior. It’s amazing to me how when God is dethroned in one’s conscious life, how those things that gratify the desires of one’s flesh is enthroned.

If you remember from earlier teachings, we learned that sexual immorality was a major problem in Corinth. The Temple of the Goddess of Love, Aphrodite, was the focal point of the city. And in this temple were hundreds of temple prostitutes who seduced men into degrading forms of worship that centered around immoral sex. Some of this gross sexual immorality had even infiltrated the church, to the point that the church was tolerating an incestuous relationship.

To help us to see the danger of sexual immorality, Paul takes us back an incident, where just before entering the Promised Land, the Moabites had invited the Israelites to attend the sacrifices to their gods. And while trying to be friend with the Moabites, “The men began to indulge in sexual immorality with Moabite women.” (Numbers 25:1) Paul mentions this because God judged his people with a plague that resulted in more than 23,000 deaths.

What does this say to those today who think God is just a God of love who winks at premarital/adulterous sex, or even at homosexual behavior? I want you to know that we should flee sexual immorality instead of flirting with it. And when you flee from temptation make sure you don’t leave a forwarding address behind you! Not only because the Bible says we should, but also because of the lifetime impact it has on us, our family, and Christ’s reputation.

Despite the clear warnings God gives us concerning sexual immorality, far too many foolish Christians still play around with it. It is very likely, considering the size of this congregation that some of you right now are either having an affair, or considering having one. It is possible that right now one of you is thinking about calling your lover this afternoon to set up a date. If the Spirit is speaking about you, I want you to know that the Spirit is saying that you need to break off that relationship, and throw away your lovers phone number. In fact, don’t even call that person to tell them it’s over. Eventually they will figure it out.

It is also possible that many of you are hooked on porn. You are buying magazines like Playboy, and not just to read the articles. Or you are watching movies or TV shows you know you shouldn’t be watching. And if you have Internet, please be don’t go to those pornographic sites just because you can do it in the privacy of your own home.
Don’t give into the seduction Satan is using through the Internet, where you have the ability to look at sinful images without having to go out and risk being seen renting pornographic movies or buying pornographic magazines.

While we are free to enjoy many things, we are not free to enjoy anything in our life that is inconsistent with purity. This includes that which fills our minds with filth and sinful images. Although we may to try kid ourselves by saying that there is nothing wrong with just a little sex, or with looking at soft porn, deep down inside we know that’s a lie. We know these kinds of things can & will harm ourselves. In a study just released this week, experts are saying that kids who watch sex on TV are more likely to be sexually active than those who don’t. I’m always delighted when experts agree with what God says in his Word. But even more important than hurting ourselves or our family, sexual immorality of any kind, whether it’s committed in the flesh or in the mind, will damage our relationship with Jesus Christ.

The fourth example of a behavior we are to avoid is testing the Lord--v. 9. To try, test, or tempt the Lord means to question God’s faithfulness. Let me make sure that we don’t misunderstand what Paul is saying. This testing isn’t claiming, and clinging to the promises of God. I encourage you to do that, especially during times of trials. I don’t say that because I’m a word of faith preacher. I say that because the Word of God is full of examples of people who reminded God of what he had previously promised. There is nothing wrong asking God to do what he has said he will do.

But what Paul’s talking about here was that the Israelites was daring God to move, yet they had within them an attitude of doubt that God could do what he said he would do. Asaph tells us that the Israelites “Spoke against God when they said, ‘Can God prepare a table in the wilderness?’” (Psalm 78:19) A lot of us are like the Israelites. God has promised to honor our tithes & offerings by meeting our every need according to his riches in Jesus Christ. Yet when there is too much month at the end of the money, instead of trusting our heavenly Master for our finances, we reach for the MasterCard. God has promised that by the stripes laid upon the back of Jesus, there has been given to us the provision for healing. Yet when we get sick, do we call upon the Great Physician, or do we call for the elders? Or do we immediately go running to the doctor? When we do stuff like that, we are acting just like the Israelites did during their wanderings in the wilderness.

But God was still patient with them for a while. But finally, God’s patience wore out when the Israelites kept complaining about what God was doing in their lives. The Bible tells us that “Again and again they tempted God in the wilderness, and pained the Holy One of Israel.” (Psalm 78:41) But the straw that broke the camel’s back was when they said, “Why have you brought us up out of Egypt to die in the desert? There is no bread! There is no water! And we detest this miserable food!’” (Numbers 21:4, 5)

This is the same way our kids treat us. They come in the house, wanting to know what’s for dinner, and when will dinner be ready because they are starving to death. But when you tell them you’re having baked chicken, broccoli, and a salad they say, “Oh, gross! Mom, can’t we have hot dogs & macaroni & cheese, like all normal families have.” And since you’ve been slaving over a hot stove all afternoon, you want to throw it all out and tell them to fix their own meals from now on. The reason you feel that way is because they have pushed you to the limits, once again, by complaining about your cooking.

The point Paul makes is that when people are not satisfied with God’s provision and even detest what he gives them, they are testing his patience. The Bible makes it clear that God’s patience can and does run out. And when that happens, you’d better watch out.
The result of the Israelites testing God was that God allowed a plague of venomous snakes to come upon them, and many died. The only solution God provided was to have Moses make a bronze snake and put it on a pole. Anyone who was bitten could look at it and live.

The final example of a behavior we are to avoid is grumbling--v. 10. The word for grumble in the Greek means to give an audible expression to unwarranted dissatisfaction. It is a sign that they we are dissatisfied with God’s sovereignty in our lives. It means we are challenging God’s wisdom. Whenever we grumble against God, what we really are saying is that we know more than God does about what is best for us. While it is okay to question what God is doing, it is never okay to complain against what God is doing.

This is an area where all of us probably are guilty of doing. All of us are guilty of saying to God, “If only!” If only I was better looking, then I’d be married. If only I had a nicer house to live in, then I’d be happy. If only I had a better job, then I wouldn’t come home in a bad mood and treat my family the way I do. If only I made more money, then I could spend more time with the family. We even use the “If only” excuse when it comes to getting involved in some kind of ministry for the Lord.

The historical reference is the story of Korah’s rebellion, found in Numbers ch. 16. Korah recruited 250 well-known community leaders to join him in a coup against Aaron and Moses. The text says Korah had what we would call today an “Attitude” towards the leadership that God had put in place. The result is that God had Korah and the other leaders of the rebellion swallowed up by an earthquake. Then fire from the Lord devoured the other 250 rebels. Finally, a plague took the lives of 14,700 others who had sympathized with them.

Paul now explains why he gave us this history lesson of examples of behaviors we are to avoid--v. 11. Since we are living in the period of time Paul describes, these examples are for us. Surely we are living in the closing of this age. I really believe that based upon the prophecies of the Bible, that we’re living in the last days. And if ever there was a time when we should be living as though Jesus could return at any moment, it is now! John tells us that there is a day acoming when we will “See Jesus just as He is. And everyone who has this hope in Him purifies himself, just as He is pure.” (1 John 3:2-3)

If ever there was a time that these examples from the Israelites history was relevant, it is today. The truth of the matter is that the very temptations that the Israelites gave into, are the same temptations that we face day by day in this century. Therefore, these examples are like the warning lights on the dashboard of your car. They are a 2x4 upside our head to keep us from living our Christian lives on cruise control.

As we learned last week, the word used here for example means to strike with a blow for the purpose of leaving an impression. The word was used in those days of the stamp that was put on the emperor’s coin. It was used to describe the strike that made the mark in the minting of coin. So what Paul is saying is that the history of the Israelites should make such an impression upon us that we will not do the same things they did.

I say that because the Greek word Paul uses for warnings, instruction, or admonition literally means to place into our mind thoughts that will change our behavior. Paul knows that the best way to deal with unacceptable behavior is to challenge that behavior from the counsel of God’s Word. He knows that if we place into our mind God’s principles, that when we cross over the boundaries, then the Holy Spirit will use those principles to convict us to change our wrong behavior.

King David once asked a very serious question: “How can a young man cleanse his way?” His answer was not to go to a psychiatrist for pillls, or a psychologist for psychoanalysis. Rather it was “By taking heed according to Your word.” (Psalm 119:9) The only way we can change our behavior is by placing into our minds the truths of God’s Word.

Paul is telling us that God stamped out, through the historical examples of the Israelites acts of disobedience, to put into our mind lessons that we must never forget, or else. I want us to look again all the consequences the Israelites experienced for their acts of disobedience. They are what I believe Paul calls the “Or else’s.” Look at the last parts of v. 8, 9, & 10.

The point that Paul is making is that he wants us to see the serious consequences of disobedience. He wants us to know that God takes sin quite seriously. I don’t know why we can’t get into our mind that God expects us to follow his instructions, or else. When we fail to follow God’s plan, Paul says we must pay! I’m just glad that God doesn’t normally discipline us today as swiftly or as permanently as he did them. Aren’t you?

I think it would be a good idea to take a pop quizz. Mentally answer these questions.

1: Am I looking to things of the world to satisify me?

2: Am I worshipping anything other than God?

3: Am I pure in my heart?

4: Am I pushing God to the limit?

5: Am I content with where I am in life right now?

The correct answers are: No, no, yes, no, yes. If you missed any of these questions, please give special attention to the consequences the Israelites experienced. Don’t kid yourself that you can get away with sin. There is no more important warning in all of Scripture than this one. If spiritual failure was experienced by the vast majority of our spiritual ancestors, in spite of their great spiritual privilege of being God’s chosen people, then it can happen to us as well

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