3: DEALING WITH
THE SIN OF STRIFE


1 Corinthians - 1:10-12
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If you've lived upon this earth for any length of time, you realize that strife is a part of life. As infants you may not have been able to get into a verbal argument with your parents, but you quickly learned that a way of expressing your displeasure was to throw a temper tantrum. There's not a parent alive who hasn't been totally embarrassed by their child sitting in a shopping cart, screaming at the top of his/her lungs, just because you wouldn't buy them something. Those temper tantrums were just a prelude of what was to come as your children passed from the terrible 2's to the dreaded teenage stage, when they totally rebel against your authority.

What causes us to want to spend so much of our time quarreling with people? James tells us that it is the "Evil desires at war within us" (James 4:1). These evil desires cause you to be "jealous for what others have, so you fight and quarrel to take it away from them" (James 4:2). The war within us, that produces these evil desires, all comes from our ego. Which tells us to look out for number 1, even if it means putting yourself before others.

Right from the very beginning, Satan convinced Adam and Eve that God was robbing them of something that was rightfully theirs. And because they fell for Satan's lie, they started to look out for number 1, instead of looking to God. Adam's rebellion against God's authority caused the sin of selfishness to be part of mankind's DNA. And it wasn't too long before the sin of selfishness caused Cain to kill Abel, because he was jealous that God accepted Abel's sacrifice and not his.

Since selfishness is part of our genetic makeup, it is only a matter of time before we too start to have quarrels and fights with those around us. These quarrels and fights not only hurt our relationships within families, not only do they hurt relationships between nations, not only can they destroy the relationships within a local church, but most importantly, they can destroy the witness God intended for his church to be.

In the high priestly prayer of our Lord Jesus, Jesus prays that his disciples would not bring this fighting into his church. He prayed, "My prayer for all of them is that they will be one, just as You and are I one, Father, and the world will believe that You have sent Me." (John 17:21) Jesus knew that the greatest proof that he had been sent by God as the Messiah, was that those who believed in him would get along with each other. Sadly, the truth of how the church of Jesus Christ is getting along is best summed up in this poem: "To live above with saints we love, won't that be glory! But to live below with saints we know, well that's another story."

We've got to wonder, with so many divisions, with so many quarrels over doctrine and practice in the universal church, has the purpose God intended for his church been aborted? The answer is no, because the Lord Jesus made this promise about the church: "I will build My church and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it." (Matthew 16:18) So despite the fighting that is going on between the different denominations, despite all the church splits over petty issues like worship styles, tongues, even the color of the carpet, God is still using his church as the primary means of getting out the good news about our Lord Jesus Christ.

I want you to understand that Paul had great sins to deal with, in the church at Corinth. Such as: incest, getting drunk at the Lord's Table, adultery, even idol worship. Sins that we put in the top 10 list of sins we know that makes God mad. What I find so amazing is the first sin that Paul deals with is the sin of strive.

Paul, in verses 10 through 17, outlines for us a plan of how we ought to deal with division. It is going to take us 2 weeks to look at it. But that's okay because my greatest fear is that something will happen that will cause this church to split. One of the things I am so thankful for how the Lord has worked in this church, is that despite all the normal church problems we have had, we've never had a split. It is truly a miracle that in our 20 yrs. of existence, that we've never got into an argument that caused a group of people to break away and start another fellowship. And I pray we never will.

The first thing Paul does is that he pleads with us to listen to what he has to say on this matter. Notice the word exhort/beseech in v. 10. The Greek word for beseech/exhort comes from the word we use to describe the work of the Holy Spirit. The Greek word is "paraklete," means "to come alongside to offer aide & assistance."

The literal meaning of this word shows that the Holy Spirit comes alongside us, places our arm in his, to help us as we go through our Christian journey. Paul uses the word paraklete to show us that his motivation is not to beat the living daylights out of us because we've failed to get along with each other. Instead, he wants to come alongside us, and guide us step by step as we learn the process of getting along.

Paul tells us that the first step of this process is having a proper attitude. We've all seen kids wearing T-shirts that say, "I have an attitude problem!" And you know that what the shirt is saying is right by the behavior the kid exhibits towards other people. An attitude is something that begins in the mind, moves down to the heart, and comes out through our flesh. Jesus told us that "Evil words come from an evil heart. . .For from the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, all other sexual immorality, theft, lying and slander." (Matthew 15:18-19)

Paul lets us know that in order for there to be unity within the body of Christ, then we have to a proper attitude that comes from both our mind and our heart. The unity that Paul speaks of here is the unity that is based on the common leadership of the Lord Jesus Christ.

Paul is not talking about uniformity. Which happens when we surrender our minds and wills over to a someone who won't let us think any more for ourselves. Or do something without first getting their permission. Those are the things that cults force people to do. Paul is talking about a unity that comes when we surrender our mind & will to the lordship of Jesus.

Let me illustrate what this unity looks like by telling about a music festival that was held in New York City, in 1887. It was organized by a very famous musician of the day. He wanted an orchestra and a choir that was so massive, that it required him to get musicians and choirs from New York, from Brooklyn, from Albany, from Newark, and from Philadelphia. In order to do this, he had to work with them separately. Even though they were all taught separately, when they all came together, they all played & sang in perfect harmony. The reason they could do so is because they were all trained by the same leader. As Paul says, the only way there will ever be harmony in the church is when we all have a proper attitude. Which is the result of all of us submitting our minds & our wills to the lordship of Jesus.

Notice also in v. 10 that Paul calls them brothers & sisters! In doing so, he's showing that despite all the problems the church was having, he still considers them to be part of God's family. When Paul addressed people by the term brothers, it showed how deeply he loved them. He reserved this term of address only for those who belonged to Jesus Christ. He never uses the term brother when he addressed an unbeliever.

And if you take this term a step further, he is implying that since we are brothers & sisters in Christ, then we've got to treat each other like we do the members of our biological family. You can pick and choose who will be your friend. But just like your biological family, you're stuck with those who God brings into the body of Christ.

God, through Paul, is telling the church that he wants us all to get along. Now, you're probably thinking, "There's no way that I can along with every person in this fellowship!" You can, because God doesn't give us commands that are based on the basis of our human ability. God never demotes his own standards and practices because of our human limitations. Instead, he does the exact opposite. He provides the strength and the ability to keep his commands that he knows we can't keep on our own. The ability to fulfill his commands comes through the power of his Spirit.

We can show the same kind of love to each other, as we do our biological family, because the Holy Spirit has put his love in us. And not just the agape type of love, but also the philio type of love. Which is what we call brotherly love.

In v. 10 Paul tells us that the problem in Corinth, and the problem with us today, is that there were divisions among the people. The Greek word for "divisions" is the word we get our English word "schism" from. The word means "to tear, or to rip apart." The way Paul uses the word in this passage shows that the difference of opinion that was coming between the different groups were literally ripping apart the family of God. Just like what happened to the Jewish people when Jesus lived among them. John reports that there arose a division among the Jews because of Jesus. Family & friends literally were being ripped apart because they held different opinions as to who Jesus was. Some said "Jesus is the Messiah. Still others said, He can't be." (John 7:41)

Jesus knew that his coming was going to rip apart families. For He said "Don't imagine that I came to bring peace to the earth! No, I came to bring a sword. I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother." (Matthew 10:34-35)

However, within the church of Jesus Christ, there is never to arise anything that could rip apart a church family. And the reason why is because in v. 10 Paul tells us that we have been joined together. In the New Testament the Greek word that is used here has the meaning of fixing something that is broke or mending something that is torn.

At one time, our relationships with other people, were just like Humpty Dumpty after he fell off the wall. Mankind's relationship had been split into so many pieces that all the king's horses, and all the king's men couldn't put it the Humpty of human relationships back together again. But when we became a Christian, God first of all crucified our flesh's sinful desire to only look out for number 1. Secondly, he gave us the indwelling presence of his Spirit, who places within us his love so we can tear down the barriers of hatred & prejudice that have separated us. And finally, he repaired mankind's broken relationship by joining us together in a family called the church.

If we will allow God to join us together as a family, we will be just like the early Church was at the beginning! The testimony of the early church was that "All the believers were of one heart and of one mind, and they felt that what they owned was not their own; they shared everything they had." (Acts 4:32) It was the unity of the early church that caused her to be such a powerful witness. It was the disunity that arose later that caused her to lose her power to witness to the goodness of God found in the Lord Jesus Christ.

How do you deal with division? First of all, pray that the Holy Spirit will restore peace between the warring parties. If they refuse to listen to the Spirit, then it's up to you to take the matter to the elders. Who will then seek God's wisdom so they can identify the source of the problem. This is process that Paul lays out for us in verses 11-12.

Let's look first at v. 11. This letter is a two-fold response to the problems Paul heard were going on in the church. Chapters 1-6 deal with the problems he heard about from some people who were part of Chloe's household, that she sent to talk to Paul. The rest of the letter is a response to the questions that people from the church wrote to Paul, asking him for his opinions about specific beliefs & practices that the church had adopted. The part that we're looking at this morning is the problems that Chloe wanted Paul to know about.

I've had people come to me and say, "I've got to tell you something that is going on in someone's life, but I don't want you to tell the person that I'm the one who told you." Chloe didn't mind her name being put to this accusation, because she was determined that the problems in Corinth needed to be fixed. She wasn't trying to cause trouble by spreading gossip or being a tattletale. Chloe had such a love for God that she knew that what was going on within the church was greatly affecting the testimony of Jesus Christ. And not only in the city of Corinth, but since the city was a major seaport, what was going on could hurt the testimony of Jesus Christ throughout the entire region surrounding the Mediterranean Sea.

Her heart was broken because she knew the bickering that was going on in her church was hurting the cause of Christ. That's ought to be the attitude of our heart when we hear there is strive within our church! If you know there is a problem between members of the church, you are not gossiping, or trying to run someone down by telling the leadership what is going on! Instead, not only you are helping preserve the greatest proof of the reality that Jesus was sent by God to be the Redeemer of all mankind, but you are also preserving the only proof that shows sinners that we belong to Jesus. Jesus said: "I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are My disciples." (John 13:34-35)

The lesson we learn from Chloe is that we need to deal immediately with any quarrelling that is going on between the people who are part of this fellowship.

Look now at v. 12. Paul tells us that the strife was being caused because the people were being loyal to men rather than loyal to God. There were people in the church shouting out "I'm a follower of Paul." In response, others would then shout out, "I'm a follower of Apollos", or "I'm a follower of Peter," or even "I only follow Jesus Christ." I want us to look at each of these groups, because these groups are still alive in today's church.

First of all there was the Paul Party. Paul led the Corinthians to salvation in the Lord Jesus Christ. In the year he spent in Corinth, he taught them the gospel of grace. Which teaches us that not only are we set free from all of our sins, but also set free from legalism. Scholars believe that those of the Paul Party were taking grace and using it as a license to sin.

Some of the people had twisted Paul's teaching on grace to the point that they believed that by sinning they were showing God's goodness. So Paul's party consisted of people who believed that a church shouldn't have any kind of rules & regulations for her members. And we still have Christians today who believe that. Which is why there is very little difference between believers & unbelievers in the rates of premarital sex, cohabitation, marital affairs, and divorces. This is the reason why voters in SC, which is part of the buckle of the Bible belt, voted in the lottery and Sunday alcohol sales.

But then there is the "Apollos Party." Apollos came from the city of Alexandria, which was known as the most intellectual city of that day. Apollos is thought to have been very intellectual concerning spiritual matters. But what made him famous was that he was extremely eloquent in his preaching of God's Word.

This made a huge impression on the Greeks, for they loved eloquence. They were enamored with rhetoric and argumentative skills. They didn't really care what you were saying as long as you said it in the right way. So they quickly fell in love with Apollos.

Paul, on the other hand, admits that he wasn't a great preacher. Why he was even known to put people to sleep while he preached. Whether he didn't use know how to use his voice, or how to use body gestures to hold people's attention, we don't know. But what we do know is that his preaching style didn't impress the Greeks. But Apollos' did.

It wasn't Apollos' fault that the people equated eloquence with good preaching. He didn't go around saying that his style of preaching was superior to Paul's. But those who were loyal to Apollos were seeking after elitism. They would only listen to the best preachers. They judged preachers by the way they sounded, or by how intellectual the sermon was, not by what the preacher had to say. The problem of elitism is still in the church today.

People won't receive a truth unless Stanley, Swindoll, or among the Calvary Chapel preachers, Courson, or Church Smith said it. My favorite radio preacher is J. Vernon McGee. I know he sounds like a country hick, but he is a Greek & Hebrew scholar. So what he says is biblically correct.

Some of you have been reading this book, and you have told me how the Lord is using it to change your life. So I decided to read it. It is a great book, but what amazed me is everything he says is exactly what I just got through saying in my teachings on the book of Romans. I've got a great deal for you this morning. If you want to save $20, get the series on Romans, listen to 1 tape a day, and after 40 days I promise you that not only will you have a purpose driven life, but a Spirit-led life.

I know I sometimes use the wrong grammar and mispronounce words, so I can relate to the great evangelist D.L. Moody. When Moody first went to England to preach, the people who attended the intellectual churches made fun of him because he used poor grammar and the wrong words. But by the time he finished his crusades, and those people saw how the Spirit used him to reach the masses for Jesus, they changed their tune of scorn to a tune of praise.

Then there was the "Cephas Party." Cephas is the Aramaic word for Peter. Since Cephas is the name Jesus commonly called Peter, most scholars believe that it's the apostle Peter that is being talked about here. As far as we know, Peter never visited Corinth. But the church knew all about the apostle Peter.

Peter was the great apostle to the Jews. He was one of the original 12 apostles. So out of the 3 men, Peter has to be the best one to follow! After all, he not only saw the Lord Jesus after his resurrection, but he also spent over 3 years with the Lord before Jesus was crucified. Something that neither Paul nor Apollos could claim.

Those of the Peter party were probably Jewish believers known as Judaizer's, we call them legalists. They believed that Christians were still bound to the laws & regulations set forth in the Old Testament. The book of Hebrews was written in response to their teachings. In the early church people were being led astray by these Judaizer's because they were going around teaching that in order to be a true Christian you had to obey all the Old Testament laws.

In today's church we also have Judaizer's. Legalists are those who say that in order to be a true Christian you have to obey certain rules. They are the ones who teach that true Christians can't go to movies, watch TV, go coed swimming, go dancing, play cards, chew tobacco or kiss girls who do. They believe that the KJV of the Bible is the only inspired one. After all, if it was good enough for Jesus & Paul, it's good enough me. They are so narrow-minded that they can look through a keyhole with both eyes. And in a church, they will suck the life right out of it.

Then fourthly there is the "Christ Party." This group believed that they spiritually superior then the rest of the people! At first you would think that there is nothing wrong with this kind of thinking. But the problem that arose from this group was that they were too holy to listen to a Holy Ghost anointed man of God teach. They wanted to be taught directly by the Lord. And the only person whose authority they would submit to was Jesus Christ. So they were going around telling people that they didn't need to submit to any of the apostles, prophets, pastor-teachers, or even the elders & deacons of the local assembly.

We don't have to go very far to find those of the Christ party in today's church. They are the ones who act as if they are holier than thou. It is very intimidating to hang around people like this. Their presence in the church makes most people feel spiritually inadequate. The way they talk you would believe that they have a hotline to God. After all, not many of us get such clear messages from the Lord that we can tell other people what his will is for them. When was the last time the Lord audibly told you something? But if you listen to these people long enough, you will soon detect a note of spiritual superiority in their voice. Remember that the Bible repeatedly reminds us that "God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble."(James 4:6)

40 years after Paul wrote this letter, one of the early church fathers, Clement of Rome, wrote that the cliques of Paul, Apollos and Cephas, were still in the church. But strangely he doesn't mention the party of Christ. The reason for that is because I believe those in Christ's party had moved on.

My experience with the super-spiritual saints is that they are looking for the perfect church. You can tell this because they find fault with everything you are doing. They don't like the music, or the types of sermons the preacher preaches, or the people are friendly enough, or there aren't enough programs for the kids. And since they can never find a church that is perfect enough, they keep going from one church to another. I believe that the only church that will good enough for them is if they start a church with just their family. But even then I think they would find fault with the members of that church.

Let me close by saying that unity in the church is of the utmost importance to God. It was the last thing that was on Jesus' mind the night before he died. It broke Paul's heart to hear that there was disunity within the Corinthian church.

Let's make maintaining our unity one of our top priorities. The only way we can maintain unity in this church is to stay focused on the main thing. What is the main thing? It's not your pet doctrine! Neither is it your favorite preacher! The writer of Hebrews tells us that we are to look unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith. Jesus is the main thing because he is the only one who died for you. So let's fix our eyes solely on Jesus.

Let's pray!!

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